“you make me hard but she makes me weak” the 1975 really said sex is great but have u ever been in love
self care isnt always lush bath bombs and $20 face masks. sometimes, it’s going to bed at 8pm or letting go of a bad friend. its forgiving yourself for not meeting your impossible standards and understanding you are worth it, nonetheless. self care isnt always luxury, but a mean for survival.
third base is when you both discuss your emotional trauma with one another
love being trusted with “you cant tell anyone this” conversations and nodding a lot and forgetting everything they told me like god intended and going down as a trustworthy individual while doing literally zero work of ill or good
am i constantly tired? yes.
but am i staying awake when i should be sleeping? also yes.